i have lost interest in sex lately and i don’t know why. i am 17 and i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. he is really good looking…very loving and i used to be the one begging for sex but now i have lost all interest. its been 2 weeks…maybe even more (we have only done it 1-2 times this month). i have a problem finishing too (well to be honest…i haven’t been able 2 at all this month) 
it just isn’t me….and i really don’t know whats wrong. my boyfriend really tries hard in satisfying me and i really enjoyed it before but now i don’t even get those tingly sensations (when i get sexually aroused). not to mention that i don’t even get wet and it gets really pan-full. i started getting very concerned today when he was trying to get me ‘wet’ but it just would not work! i doubt it if it is because i have low iron because i have had it for many months (even before i met my boyfriend)! has anybody got any ideas as to why this is happening? how anybody else experienced it? is there a way to increase my libido?
Answer:
Sometimes it just happens! Are you on the birth control pill? That can actually decrease libido.
Try new things with your boyfriend, but be safe! Maybe switch it up a little… if sex is boring, you’re not going to want it.
Also, masturbate! Believe it or not, it’s a lot easier to reach orgasm with your partner when you can reach orgasm by yourself. Experiment with yourself and figure out what feels good, and teach your boyfriend to do that. He’ll probably really enjoy it if you masturbate in front of him, too.
You could try looking at porn with your boyfriend. There’s nothing wrong with it, and it can be something fun and new to do together.
If you’re not getting “wet”, there’s nothing wrong with you, some women just don’t get “wet” as easily as other women do. Go to your grocery store or a drugstore, and pick up a bottle of lubricant. I like KY brand. They make fun types of lubricant – my boyfriend and I like KY Yours & Mine. The lubricant will make it feel better and not hurt when you have sex, and if you use fun kinds that make you experience different sensations, it can make sex more exciting.
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Have you been to a wedding lately?
I found this a FOOD that causes women to lose interest in sex…
Base on Empirical evidence… it’s called “wedding cake”.
Try different positions and types of sex. Be creative (and be safe).
Sometimes it just happens! Are you on the birth control pill? That can actually decrease libido.
Try new things with your boyfriend, but be safe! Maybe switch it up a little… if sex is boring, you’re not going to want it.
Also, masturbate! Believe it or not, it’s a lot easier to reach orgasm with your partner when you can reach orgasm by yourself. Experiment with yourself and figure out what feels good, and teach your boyfriend to do that. He’ll probably really enjoy it if you masturbate in front of him, too.
You could try looking at porn with your boyfriend. There’s nothing wrong with it, and it can be something fun and new to do together.
If you’re not getting “wet”, there’s nothing wrong with you, some women just don’t get “wet” as easily as other women do. Go to your grocery store or a drugstore, and pick up a bottle of lubricant. I like KY brand. They make fun types of lubricant – my boyfriend and I like KY Yours & Mine. The lubricant will make it feel better and not hurt when you have sex, and if you use fun kinds that make you experience different sensations, it can make sex more exciting.
have you started taking birth control, that causes your libido to drop significantly